Where do you go when the world wants you dead and the people who love you want you free? Where do you run when there is nowhere to hide from antiblack violence, and there’s nowhere to tell the truth about wanting to die?
The danger in maintaining the gender binary is that it’s not just misgendering that happens to folks who identify outside of the binary, it’s the repetitive death of your existence. Every time I experience erasure, I die a little.
The reality we must face is that even when liberation comes — people who cause harm may not choose to transform.
When you use the wrong pronoun, you’ve crossed my boundary but you could never misgender me.
Surviving can be a process, a destination, a title, a feeling, a moment, a lifetime. And surviving can also be a world we never arrive at.
